Sometimes, I think about sending a playful meme over whatsapp to break the ice, but I stop myself, knowing it won’t lead anywhere meaningful. But, of course, we know what this all means. None of this silliness will lead to a meaningful relationship or, frankly, to a date.
Why am I just playing around?
I’m having a series of outside issues that I’m dealing with that mess with my self-esteem, and therefore, prevent me from being able to date. If dating is like job interviewing, imagine trying to go on a series of job interviews when you’re feeling really crummy about yourself. The innocent flirting is about all my psyche can handle these days. It’s quite sad, really, because it ends up wasting months of my life when I could be meeting someone special. Sometimes, I even consider writing a long whatsapp message to someone I liked, just to see if they’d respond—but I never hit send.